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MamaBear  
#1 Posted : Sunday, March 29, 2015 8:53:01 PM(UTC)
MamaBear

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Posts: 279
Location: Colorado

let's work together to keep the new players around. Let's work together to invite the new players to join us.

There are not very many new players right now and I have witnessed and heard about new players being chased away lately. I am all for being aggressive on the table. The main reason we play a game like foosball is because of our competitive nature, the desire to win, the desire to be better than someone else or even our selves.

What I don't understand is why do some players have to take the aggression to blatant rudeness, disrespect, and beyond normal vugarity.
Allow me to give you some examples:
-A couple new players show up pre-tournament to polish their newly learned skills, excited and nervous about entering the tournament. The night comes that they decide to enter the group and see if they would be welcome. Within an hour, one of the newbies is yelled at, cussed at, and told to be quiet while they are watching a "professional" play a tournament match. 2 players lost, never to return.
-A new player from the attic (with a big THANK YOU to Davin!) comes down to play in a tournament. The 2nd match of the night he plays in, losers bracket, a seasoned player proceeds to 10-1 him with jarring, swearing and laughing at the new players lack of skill. Never saw that guy again.
One more example of many
-A player I have never seen before, came to BC's and sat on a stool watching the tournament. I asked him if he was a player. He said, "only at home and an occasional bar game, but I'd like to." That night one of our players proceeded to say such profane things on the table directed towards his opponent, things that would make a trucker cringe, that the man got up said, "Wow, this is not for me!" I never saw him again.

Cuss, yell, play mind games, stomp your foot, whatever, but don't make it personal! Have some common sense and then shake hands and remember that we are all here for the same common purpose and are blessed to have a place to compete, let off some steam and hang out with friends.

On Friday night a player suggested to me that I find a place near a college to bring new players in. Another suggested to me, and Tommy has talked about it several times, to start running tournaments in High schools. Absolutely not! I have a big problem having my own daughters play at times. I have 2 nephews and another teenager very interested, but unfortunately I don't encourage them.

I don't want to just run a tournament, warm ups, state... I want to be proud of the sport I play. I want to see it grow and thrive, do you?

Let's talk about this
MamaBear

Boogie  
#2 Posted : Sunday, March 29, 2015 10:55:00 PM(UTC)
Boogie

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In my opinion, if there is a person who can cuss at, yell at, belittle or tell a new player or beginner to shut the fuck up- while they are experiencing competitive foos for the first time, then why cant you just say who this person, (or people) are?

I know you arent one for stirring up drama, and would prefer to just reach out and hope the message gets across to whoever is reading...but this person, or people, who are able to be so fucked up in front of beginners, or potential new people to the scene, SHOULD be called out into the open.

Theres nothing i hate more than seeing one of our colorado players who have played forever completely recoiling, or going off, on a beginner. it is fucking lame as hell, and even worse when the beginner is like a deer in the headlights on the other side of the table, embarrassed, and never returns. Weakest shit ever. who the fuck is this person, or people, who are dwindling our already weakened scene?

777  
#3 Posted : Sunday, March 29, 2015 10:59:55 PM(UTC)
777

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For nearly six years, I've had this theory:

Newbies check out the scene, see how foosball is really played, and then think to themselves, "Whoa, this is some crazy stuff. Look at all that sick passing and shooting! I'm not cut out for this. Screw it."

or...

"Whoa, this is some crazy stuff. Look at all that sick passing and shooting! I want to learn how to do that!"

I guess it's never really sunk in that some of us are acting like jerks to noobs.
I understand what some people will say...you need to have thick skin, man up, whatever...if you want to be able to handle the pressure of tournament foos. But by the beard of Zeus, save that shit for later.
I've certainly witnessed seasoned players being helpful to noobs, and I always try to welcome them, but Sheri's examples definitely seem plausible, though unfortunate. It seems like we've had a decent number of noobs come through BC's in the past year, but I can't think of any who have stuck around.
I'm sure as hell not the TD, but I highly recommend a regular practice of letting all first-timers have free entry. Everyone of us who wants to see the community evolve and grow should go a little out of their way to welcome these people.

That said, there will be exceptions, such as dudes who look like they just escaped a federal penitentiary...and that dude wearing the ear buds, who might be a 404 guy. We don't have to go out of our way to be nice to jerks.

I also think that as long as foosball is a game played in bars, and going til 0200 hours, it will continue to attract a limited and stereotypical demographic.
Dustin Gatliff  
#4 Posted : Monday, March 30, 2015 12:18:38 AM(UTC)
Dustin Gatliff

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Originally Posted by: 777 Go to Quoted Post

Newbies check out the scene, see how foosball is really played, and then think to themselves, "Whoa, this is some crazy stuff. Look at all that sick passing and shooting! I'm not cut out for this. Screw it."

or...

"Whoa, this is some crazy stuff. Look at all that sick passing and shooting! I want to learn how to do that!"


I remember the speed being pretty intimidating when I first started playing competitively back in 2006. It seemed so impossible that it made me question whether or not to stick with it or find a new sport. Luckily, the Ohio scene was a very welcoming one and shortly after getting my ass handed to me at my first DYP, I was 'taken in' by a couple players who I can't ever thank enough: Dusty Bambenek and Keith Maurer. Without either of them, I probably wouldn't still be playing because they helped me grow so much and were always there to practice or explain any aspect of the game I was curious about. I look back on that and appreciate it so much that anytime we get a new beginner in our scene, I do whatever I can to offer the same thing to them.

We still had a couple local assholes that would belittle you when you made a bad play or that would roll their eyes and make a nasty comment when they draw a beginner, and it did drive off a handful of players, but for me it was just more motivation to work harder, get better, and prove them wrong.
DJ Trash-O-Matic  
#5 Posted : Monday, March 30, 2015 12:40:35 AM(UTC)
DJ Trash-O-Matic

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I think the key to getting new players to play is simple...
Have them watch Slice/ and Nick play and simply put it that those guys are some of the best players in the state...
Noobies: You've got to be kidding us? right?
Us: Nope! They make it look harder than it is.
Noobies: Duh


ItDoesn'tHurtToAskTrashy
777  
#6 Posted : Monday, March 30, 2015 1:59:10 AM(UTC)
777

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Well, then it's my fault. Because I always tell noobs that I'm the worst player in the room. Imagine what they're thinking after seeing ME play.
FooserX  
#7 Posted : Monday, March 30, 2015 2:06:33 AM(UTC)
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I'm with Boogie - I don't know why you need to keep anyone's name a secret if they are hurting new players perception of the game. Same with the ball stealers....Public shaming is the best medicine! lol I really hope you are at least talking to them about what happened, so they might realize their actions are not helping the game. To not say anything to them is just perpetuating the problem.

I said put a tourney in a place where young people (college to mid 20's) hang out. If that's a college area - good. Or put it in a bar where a lot of people in that age range hang out (like 404 or the old B-52's). People that age love playing foos for fun. It's a great way to mingle, but it has to stay fun. It has to be beginner only and non-threatening. You can't have tour players ruining it. That's why the Summit County tourneys are so successful...because they are just fun.

I agree with almost all of your points Sheri except the part about bad attitudes. That's just competition. Not everyone has good sportsmanship, and I hate to say, but that's part of why I love this game. It brings out such passion in everyone, and you can't curtail that. It just comes out. It's not our responsibility to be G rated for the once in a blue moon newbie who is there.

The issue to me is that you can't have new players who are on the fence playing against tour caliber foosers. BEGINNER ONLY....that's the only environment that is a safe zone for them. They will see the game on the level that fits them, and won't be intimidated.

X

Edited by user Monday, March 30, 2015 2:11:11 AM(UTC)  | Reason: Not specified

"When I get to the table, that person, I don't care who they are, they're my mortal enemy. I hate them. " - John Grizzly
Slice/  
#8 Posted : Monday, March 30, 2015 2:16:19 AM(UTC)
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The training or cultivation of a newbie does not start at a BYP or a DYP. Players go to one of these for the competition, the chance to match their skills against other players and try to beat them or compete with them at their level. You do not bring people into any sport at the competition level, nor do most sports have the training and education done by the participating athletes. Davin had the right model to follow by having a Monday night training event where newbies could learn the game. He wouldn't allow them to compete in the Tuesday competition tourney until they acquired the proper skills from regular training on Mondays. Nick has a good model of developing newbies skills during breaks on their table at work. During these times the competitive passion and desire to match skills develop. When they do finally enter a competition they usually find out that they are in over their heads, but not because of lack of basic skills, but because of lack of tourney experience, but because they have taken time to build basic skills before competition, they will more than likely go back to the practice table and work to be more consistent, or as Dustin pointed out, work to show them guys the next time. The key thing being their desire for the next time. Start a training night again to give newbies a chance to be taught. Learn to crawl, learn to walk, learn to run.

The attitude problems displayed by some don't turn just newbies away from the game. Competitiveness is great but disrespect is not. Be competitive with respect.
777  
#9 Posted : Monday, March 30, 2015 11:10:13 AM(UTC)
777

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^This.

So in summary...It would be cool to have a beginner night at BC's, if someone is willing to run it. In the meantime, let's be competitive, intense, etc. But let's all go out of our way a bit to make noobs feel welcome.
MamaBear  
#10 Posted : Tuesday, March 31, 2015 8:19:56 AM(UTC)
MamaBear

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Location: Colorado

Originally Posted by: FooserX Go to Quoted Post

I agree with almost all of your points Sheri except the part about bad attitudes. That's just competition. Not everyone has good sportsmanship, and I hate to say, but that's part of why I love this game. It brings out such passion in everyone, and you can't curtail that. It just comes out. It's not our responsibility to be G rated for the once in a blue moon newbie who is there.

The issue to me is that you can't have new players who are on the fence playing against tour caliber foosers. BEGINNER ONLY....that's the only environment that is a safe zone for them. They will see the game on the level that fits them, and won't be intimidated.

X


I am not expecting G rated. I also, love the competitiveness and most of what it brings to the game. I am trying to make the argument that there is a line that has been crossed when it becomes very personal, threatening and disrespectful.
When I started playing in 1987 there were no beginner tourneys. I was thrown in with the Oklahoma crowd, Tommy, Lee Thompson and many other great players. Of course there were obnoxious 'Jerks" across the table. It made me want to play better and tougher. Many of us know about the Lamplighter, Spears' Underground, Pitchers, and The Golden Cue crowd. But, never have I witnessed or experienced some of the cruelty that I've seen lately, and with only a very few people.
Because we don't have a new player tournament and lost a couple tournaments, we really do need to have a plan and desire to work together to regrow this sport.

I have talked to a couple of the people and will not call them out on the board. The only reservation that I have is because I am a woman, I feel it is not right to ever put a man 'in his place.' So, I feel like this is the best way to start the conversation.

I want to stress that I do love the Colorado players and almost everyone I've met on tour! This is just something that has been eating at me and I'm trying to do my small part in keeping Foosball alive and growing again.

FooserX  
#11 Posted : Tuesday, March 31, 2015 2:13:47 PM(UTC)
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Originally Posted by: MamaBear Go to Quoted Post
I am trying to make the argument that there is a line that has been crossed when it becomes very personal, threatening and disrespectful.


Well that is uncool for sure. I have not seen anything like that on the table in a long, long time.

X

"When I get to the table, that person, I don't care who they are, they're my mortal enemy. I hate them. " - John Grizzly
Skum  
#12 Posted : Wednesday, April 1, 2015 4:25:22 AM(UTC)
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This may be a little counter productive to this conversation but I'm a new player and so far everybody I've met and played with has been super amicable. In fact, many players have gone really far out of their way to encourage me to keep showing up.
MamaBear  
#13 Posted : Wednesday, April 1, 2015 9:05:13 AM(UTC)
MamaBear

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Originally Posted by: Skum Go to Quoted Post
This may be a little counter productive to this conversation but I'm a new player and so far everybody I've met and played with has been super amicable. In fact, many players have gone really far out of their way to encourage me to keep showing up.


That is not counter productive at all! I am really hoping that more players feel this way. Tommy and I went up to Avon to play tonight. It was a really fun tournament! There were 4 guys there for their first tournament and when they played 1/2 the players stood around the table watching them and cheering them on. I know they will be a permanent part of the CO scene.
777  
#14 Posted : Wednesday, April 1, 2015 1:41:00 PM(UTC)
777

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Originally Posted by: MamaBear Go to Quoted Post
There were 4 guys there for their first tournament and when they played 1/2 the players stood around the table watching them and cheering them on. I know they will be a permanent part of the CO scene.


I heard that 1/2 the players couldn't stop watching. Here's a photo of the new guys.

UserPostedImage
Dubs  
#15 Posted : Wednesday, April 1, 2015 5:21:59 PM(UTC)
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Originally Posted by: 777 Go to Quoted Post

I heard that 1/2 the players couldn't stop watching. Here's a photo of the new guys.

UserPostedImage


From left to right: Victor and Manuel Esparza, Luis Martinez, and Teo.
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